Friday, January 20, 2012

Stupid actions

I just want to post this to anyone who might be reading my blog, not that anyone ever read it. But i still jut want to post this up.

One of the stupidest thing i've ever seen anyone doing online is that of writing or rambling on and on about a person whom they had just had a fight with or break up with. They just need the whole world to know that the other half is an idiot or something and that they are mad and horribly upset. So, they shared it to the world. Everyone tried to act sympathetic, helps in bashing or commenting the post by agreeing and insulting the other half, to make their "BFF" feels better.
Whose to know that by the next 3 months, that couple are back again together and happily in love again, acting like their stupid argument has never happened before.. And all the surrounding people acts happy for both of them, supporting, congratulating and wishing them years and years of happiness.. Forgetting that they once insult, gossiped and bad mouth these people before.

And the couple, they are the stupidest of all. They shared all their hatred, and they share their happiness. They just couldn't help but wanted to share EVERYTHING on the virtual world. They didn't think before they share. Didn't think that 1 day, they could be together with the person that they are thrashing now, with their friends. And no matter if they are together or not, everybody knows all the thing about the other half. The good AND the bad. How ironic. The person thatyou trashed about, with your friends. That's the person later on you fell in love and cannot live even a second without it. And when your friends reminded you of all the stories that you once told them, you'll get all sensitive and upset thinking everyone wants to sabotage your happiness. How stupid.

Even stupider, when you break a friendship with once your BFF. Over a person you once hate for what he did. You breakloose yourself because your ex-bff was not on your team of sympathisers. And suddenly one day, you came back to the guy, all happy and content. But your ex-bff is just another old story. Nothing change. And that's how much you value your friendship.

I guess i never understand much about friendship. Not even in the schooldays. It too much a complicated bond for me to handle. And all that i ever had was just a fake bond, where everything go bust once you no longer see them everyday. No one tells me anything anymore. I just knew it either from other peoples' mouth or the social media. And that's how much my friendship's worth. To everyone. How good was that to know. And i'm being said the bad one. Because i didn't take part. I didn't asked. I didn't tell. I didn't care. Oh what the hell, the only reason these are not on my social status is because i value too much for my family name to make a fool of myself. But if i didn't think so much of that, i would have posted these toneach and everyone of you fakers' walls. You didn't gave a damn when you posted about me. Why should i be any less kinder?

Friendship is not what it is as it used to be. If anyone of who happened to read this post and thinks i'm wrong, then correct me please. I wouldn't mind taking a hit for the right reason. But trust me, you guys shared to much out there, you just don't value your privacy any much anymore.

Only stupid people do stupid actions.

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