Why boys lie....and girls cry

WHY BOYS LIE

there are many reasons why boys lie...in my point of view,here are some of the reasons:-

-they do it just for fun.
-they do it to protect us from being hurt.
-they do it to cover whatever they did wrong.
-they do it to make us feel better.
-they do it so that they dont have to argue much with us.
-they do it to make themselves feel better.
-they do it to make the world a better place...for them.
-they do it so that they dont have to think much.

there are many other reasons that i couldnt bring myself to type it here...but that's generally why boys lie in my opinion..emphasis on MY OPINION.

WHY GIRLS CRY

-they cry because they feel sad.
-they cry because they feel terribly sad.
-they cry just because they feel like it.
-they cry because they're heart broken.
-they cry because they want to.
-they cry because their heart felt empty.
-they cry because they are happy.
-they cry for other people's troubles.
-they cry for their loved ones.
-they cry out of no reason.
-they cry because they are girls.

crying is like one of my hobby nowdays...one of my routine..
sometimes even i don't know why i cry...the tears just falls down without warning or early signs...but after crying,i felt a bit better than before...

there are tears of joy and happiness...there are also tears of sadness and sorrow..
i dont know which tears that fell down on my cheeks...that swam in my eyes...
but it really relieves me after a few minutes of crying...
i know some people dont like seeing me cry,but i cant stop myself from producing these tears...
for it is an involuntary action,a response towards what my heart is feeling at the moments...

why boys lie...maybe they did it at our best interest at their hearts and mind..
but sometimes they may also lie to get away from whatever they have done...
i cant assumed that all boys lie for the same reason because it depends on the situation...just like why the girls cry...but i,for one,can admit that at times....girls just cry because the boys just lie...

u may not agree with my post but what the heck...it's just my opinion...
u can voice out yours...either by commenting this post...or simply just write your own blog.

lyrics and songs

this is 1 song,that whenever i hear it,ifelt like crying so much...

"Kau membuat ku berantakan
Kau membuat ku tak karuan
Kau membuat ku tak berdaya
Kau menolakku acuhkan diriku
Bagaimana caranya untuk
Meruntuhkan kerasnya hatimu
Ku sadari ku tak sempurna
Ku tak seperti yang kau inginkan
[Reff]
Kau hancurkan aku dengan sikapmu
Tak sadarkah kau telah menyakitiku
Lelah hati ini meyakinkanmu
Cinta ini membunuhku...."

and another song,that makes me thing about that one person...and what he had done..it's just too much to think about..

kamu yang bawa ku terbang
kamulah jua yang membawa cintake jalannya...
kamu yang bawa ku terbang
ke bintang kejora cinta kita
kekal untuk selamanya..

if i were to type out all the lyrics,it'll take too much space...
but these particular part of the song,these lyrics,it really meant a lot to me...

through times we've changed...we are not who we thought we were..
you're not who i thought you were...but you gave a whole new meaning of life to me..
you show me things i refused to look at before...you helped me through ups and downs..
for that,i thank you...for caring so much about me...

Challenges...and friends

This post is actually dedicated to a person,whose been having problems and under terrible pressure right now...although i now he wont read this blog,i still feel like writing this story here.

Our life isn't as easy as 1,2,3...nor does it as simple as A,B,C... There will be a part in our life, (or maybe many parts), when troubles and challenges comes... Destroying peace and harmony in our mind and soul... But everytime these things happen, we should know that it happens for a reason.. That's what people taught me about.. That everything happens for a reason...

Take times to realize the situation... sometimes,just by closing our eyes,take a deep breath and count to 10 will also help soothes our feelings that may be like the rough waves at the sea during a terrile storm...

Although sometimes we feel like we want to shut the whole world out of our life, having a person to share our problems and feelings helps...a lot.. Dont try to keep it all to yourself for it will only eats you,day by day...

I learn from experience that not everything goes the way we planned it... Sometimes obstacle, challenges occurs...These are the time for us to learn new things...even if we dont like it,one day these lessons will help us in the future..

so,to my dear friend,who are having troubles to overcome the challenges in life, i'm not saying that i'm any better than you are... because sometimes,i myself have troubles and can't overcome it...but having a friend by yourside,to share your worries with,to figure out a way to solve problems...just to have a friend to talk to when you think the world is at its end,having a friend helps...Everytime i'm facing my challenges in life,you are always there to help me...to guide me through and just stick with me...now,give me a chance to return the favor...give me a chance to be with you...to be your friend...

As people say,a friend in need is a friend indeed!